Strange how each issue of Positive Health PH Online 
seems to have its own ‘theme’, despite my non-selection, or so I think. 
As I commission and put together each issue of PH Online, I must 
subconsciously select articles which go together in a certain way, 
despite the variation of the subjects.
 
PH Online Nov Issue 188
 has a definite selection of features around Mental Health, Healing, 
Trauma, Abuse / Bullying and Patient Expectation. Additionally, there 
are Nutritional features discussing Eating with the Heart in Mind, a 
Naturopathic Roadmap to Achieving your Ideal Weight and Diet during 
Renal Failure and after Kidney Transplant. Even the Bodywork features 
concern aspects of Heal
For much of October, while putting together Issue 188, I
 have also been caring for my partner and webmaster Mike, recovering 
from a hernia repair operation. As everybody who has ever been in 
hospital and ever undergone any surgery will know, the euphemisms used 
by medical doctors to describe minor procedures never convey the 
dramatic and sometimes catastrophic reality experienced by the patient.
As someone who, as a child, nearly died of meningitis 
and spent a long period in hospital, and who has had various ‘minor’ 
operations during my childhood, youth and young adulthood, I am acutely 
aware of how what seems to be a non-major operation balloons into such 
feelings of vulnerability, pain, helplessness. Just the simple, normal 
functions of urination, defecation, walking, assume monumental mountains
 to climb on the journey back to health.
Today my partner told me that he understood why my mother, who nearly died of Clostridium difficile
 following knee replacement surgery in Montreal, absolutely refuses to 
have her other knee operated, despite being severely disabled. Mike, 
perfectly healthy, fit and strong, suffered an inguinal hernia about 6 
months ago, probably self-inflicted during his intense stretching and 
exercising regimen. Although he was able to go about most of his 
ordinary life with the help of a hernia support belt, he wouldn’t have 
been able to resume exercising and exert himself unless the hernia was 
repaired. So he underwent the laparoscopic repair surgery on a day 
surgery basis and was discharged several hours later in the afternoon.
And that is one of the problems. When you are discharged
 from the day surgery, you are meant to refer any issues, problems, 
complications, etc either back to the GP, or go to Accident and 
Emergency. As someone who grew up in Canada where patients can visit any
 specialist doctor they choose, the limitations of the NHS system have 
loomed massively. All the complications ensuing from this hernia 
operation – urinary / prostate / kidney infection, pain, constipation 
resulting from pain killers with codeine and electrolyte disruption due 
to other medication for the constipation have all been typical 
drug-related issues. In fact, the infection – whatever it has been – 
almost certainly was iatrogenic, as Mike was perfectly healthy prior to 
the surgery and showed urinary problems immediately following the 
operation.
Having moved fairly recently to Kent and not having been
 able to assemble a team of holistically-oriented health professionals, I
 have suffered anguish regarding how to recognize and diagnose symptoms 
and attempt to move matters forward without heroic or aggressive 
interventions, which may have resulted from going to A&E on a 
Saturday or Sunday night. The GP hours are virtually 9-5; we have had 
more contact with the out-of-hours doctors, who are also generalists. 
What Mike needed and still needs is a doctor knowledgeable in urology. 
What he doesn’t need is to undergo further invasive interventions unless
 absolutely necessary.
I am sure that the scenario described above is familiar 
to virtually every family in the UK who has ever had the misfortune to 
have a family member fall sick or experience health problems. It appears
 that Mike has made progress, although he certainly doesn’t feel well, 
is still experiencing pain. He is finally undergoing blood, urine tests 
and will have an x-ray, but this has been arrived at through my 
virtually 24/7 campaign to email and phone the GP and out-of-hours 
agency. It is apparently a virtual state secret to discover or see the 
notes from the actual surgery. Quite incredible.
Hopefully by the time the Dec Issue 189 is published, 
Mike will feel better and this will be a nasty memory. My fingers are 
crossed, metaphorically speaking.